Showing posts with label advice. Show all posts
Showing posts with label advice. Show all posts

01 April, 2011

Ignorance -vs- Stupidity

For some odd reason when I say the word "ignorant", be it an internet forum or in person.  The recipient often seems to act as if I called them stupid or something.  I cannot wrap my head around why someone would choose to get offended because they do not know something.  By saying "ignorant" one is inferring .."Hey, I don't think you're stupid -- I just think you are ill-informed."  I'm ignorant of things too!  All human-beings are..

It's after the use of the word ignorant the person predictably resorts to being defensive and obviously blocking whatever I say as if it is no longer relevant to them.  Now that is stupidity at it's finest.  Not only is that person ignorant, but NOW they have proven themselves to be STUPID as well. 

Are our egos so fragile that we as people can't hear someone out because of hurt feelings and semantics? 

People need to get over themselves...for real.

22 February, 2011

What Is A Hero?

he·ro 

[heer-oh]

–noun, plural -roes; for 5 also -ros.

1. a man of distinguished courage or ability, admired for his brave deeds and noble qualities.

2. a person who, in the opinion of others, has heroic qualities or has performed a heroic act and is regarded as a model or ideal.
 
   
These are a few of mine:
 








 
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13 January, 2011

Letter To My Readers

Hello All,

With all I’ve mentioned on my blog I would be an idiot to ignore the dangers of thinking aloud on the internet. Sometimes you just have to say something and I have. I think my stance is clear. However, I realize anything I say can be taken the completely wrong way, I could be labeled as something I am not, or worst case scenario it could be used against me in some twisted fashion. People will only ever come to their own conclusions, as was the case with me in the past year. I won’t stop knowing what I know. I think there’s enough information on my site for anyone to do their own research.  I encourage people to research all things concerning life, prophesy, the Bible, the environment, Hollywood, and the music industry on their own. I realize that on my part, there is nothing left to say to anyone, but plenty left to show in hopes that someone can begin to recognize things on their own. I will use my eye to show you in pictures and I will make the extra effort not to be "preachy". Talking has deemed itself counterproductive in my life. There’s no way in the world I can talk enough to convey a thing that is of no interest to someone. It’s ok, and with much deep introspection I’m finally coming to a place where I am accepting those subtleties of the human mind /ego and what allows it to entertain some things and not others. I will attempt to let myself be as happy as our creator will allow me to be in such times.


Love and Blessings!

Kell

31 December, 2010

Advice: Stretching Hair Short Notice



I’ve found that stretching your hair with short notice IS possible. After I attained a little length I soon learned that your hair has got to be prepared before you go to sleep to make your routing in the morning a breeze. Otherwise you will be dealing with a squashed/matted mess. I wouldn’t say that I am a shrinkage-hater, BUT for the most part I do not like it. It makes my preparation just that much more drawn-out if you ask me. It’s that same aspect of natural hair that actually allows us so many styling options, hold, and structure….so I can’t complain too much about it really.  However, if someone says to you at 3:00 let’s have dinner at say..8:00 (& your hair is a little drawn-up), but you don’t get off of work until say 4:00 – THERE IS HOPE. You can still achieve an “out” style.



NOTE:

*This has got o be done on previously DRY (second-day hair at the freshest – for kinky girls).

*You will need oil/water combo spray, a cream moisturizer, some gel, a detangling comb, a tali-comb with wide teeth and a blow-dryer



STRETCHING HAIR WITH SHORT NOTICE:

*Mist your entire head with the oil/water combo just to dampen it(DO NOT OVERSATURATE)

*Rub a nice amount of moisturizer in palm and distribute as evenly as possible (This should make hair moist, but not “wet“

* Apply some gel to a section of hair an detangle section by FAT section.

* Let those fat twists set for a while (do your makeup or find what to wear…)

*When the direct surface of the twist feels dry (which should not take long if you used all products in moderation) GENTLY UNRAVEL the twists

* Grab the blow-dryer and use the “cold shot” button on the warm setting.

*DO NOT let-up off of the ‘cold shot’ and go over entire head

*Take each unraveled twist stretching it and drying it with the blowdryer.

*Leave the slightest bit of moisture in your hair (I mean SLIGHT or your hair will shrink at dinner)

*Gently apply your oil…I use EVOO (extra virgin olive oil)

*Then seal with whatever you normally use (I love CASTOR oil)



There you have it – stretched hair…with short notice.